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By Mari-Jane Williams and Alisa Shodiyev
(The Washington Post) It’s the household task that’s launched a thousand (or more) domestic disputes: loading the dishwasher.
Silverware pointing up or down? Cram in those unwieldy pots and pans, or wash them by hand? How much can you crowd in there? What can go on the bottom shelf? The variations, and possibilities for debate, are endless, and frequently make their way into marriages and roommate relationships.
Timothy Faust, a 36-year-old health activist in Milwaukee, recently posted on X: “I thought my dad’s pickiness about how to load the dishwasher was ridiculous until I moved in with a beautiful woman whose approach the task, shall we say, reminds me of the Galveston beach I visited after Hurricane Ike.”
Faust says his dad, known as “Big Jim,” brings “total rigor” to the task. Even now, Faust says, when he’s visiting Big Jim, his dad will go behind him to adjust an out-of-place mug.
“He has a vision … and there’s no way I can possibly fit into it,” Faust says.
Although his wife, Renee’s, methods feel inefficient to Faust — she wedges cups sideways on the bottom rack or parks the InstantPot liner pot smack in the middle, making it hard to fit other things around it – he says the dishes do typically come out clean. And it’s not a source of tension; he finds it endearing and says he enjoys the game of rearranging the dishes to make things fit better.
Other couples, though, take things more seriously. Jessica Ek, the senior director of digital communications for the American Cleaning Institute, knows of at least one couple who included dishwasher-related rules in their wedding vows. She has also heard of a family establishing the rule that if you load the machine and everything doesn’t come out clean, you are responsible for rewashing those dishes.
We asked five of our Washington Post colleagues to load the dishwasher in our test kitchen while narrating their thought process, on video. Each had the same assortment of plates, bowls, glasses, mugs, silverware and pots and pans to choose from, with the caveat that they didn’t have to fit everything into the machine. We even threw in a few traps, in the form of cast iron, crystal, knives and a wooden spoon.
Our volunteers were a sharp bunch: No one fell for the cast iron or crystal, and most of them caught the knife and wooden spoon. Otherwise, their methods were all over the map, with varying styles of loading the silverware or trying to put together the puzzle with large bowls or cookware.
There probably isn’t one right way to load a dishwasher, no matter what your roommate, parent or partner tells you. There are some best practices, though.
“You want it to be able to clean what you’re trying to clean, and you want it to not damage, scratch or ruin what you’ve put in there,” Ek says. “If you can achieve both of those things, done is better than ideal.”
Here are Ek’s guidelines on how and where to load items.
As for more general dishwasher loading advice, Ek shared these tips:
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