Hi Meredith,

As a young woman, I feel that you meet people that could be “the one” every day, but I met someone this summer and we really hit it off. It took three months for us to finally go on a date, and honestly, it was the best date I’ve ever been on. He held every door, pulled out my chair, did everything that a perfect gentleman would do. I’ve met his friends and he always seems so interested. We’ve gone on three dates and I’ve never had a connection like this with anybody.

Then comes the confusion. After our third date, he asked met to stay over and I couldn’t. He happily walked me to my car, gave me a kiss goodnight, and asked for a text once I got home safely. Then the texts started to slowly stop, conversations would abruptly end, one day he will text me all day and then I don’t hear from him for days.

I’m confused as to what the issue is. Do I ask him? Is it too much if I say something? What do you think it could be? I’m extremely confused and honestly disappointed. I keep thinking I did something wrong on our date, but I’m not even sure what that could be. Help!

– Disappointed and Crushing