I went out with a woman I met online. Prior to going out, we texted for a week leading up to our date, several times a day, in fact. We seemed to click and to really get along, so after we finished our “get to know” you drinks we ended up meeting up with a group of her friends at a bar. After a few fours of hanging out, she let it be known in no uncertain terms that she wanted me to kiss her. Done and done. That led to a little more kissing, and pretty soon we were full-on making out in public. We got a cab to leave, and during the cab ride we were still making out. We got to her house and kissed and grabbed a little more and she said, “There will be plenty of time for this later.” I was more than cool with that and said goodnight.

We continued to text daily, several times a day, and then finally met up for our second date. I walked into where I was supposed to meet her, and her body language screamed “uninterested.” She even moved back a little when I went to hug her hello. Over the course of the night, she was being what I would call “polite.” She didn’t seem comfortable when I would touch her arm or something small like that. Our night wrapped up and I walked her to her car where we shared an incredibly awkward hug and I went on my way.

Now I am completely baffled. I didn’t know if because things got off to a quick physical start, she felt the need to make it clear that she wasn’t “that type of girl.” Or maybe I was just a mistake she made after a couple of drinks and she didn’t want to just ignore me. If we hadn’t texted all week long between dates, I could kind of see her not being into me. But she seemed into me with every interaction, except date number two. What’s up? Should I move on or make an effort? I really like her, but I also don’t want to be clingy.

— What Happened?