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Love Letters is an advice column and award-winning podcast written and hosted by Meredith Goldstein. Ask confidential questions about single life, crushes, dating fatigue, open relationships, marriage, divorce, and everything in between. Get empathetic answers — and let others with similar questions know they’re not alone. The column runs on Boston.com and in The Boston Globe.

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Dating

He’s not who I thought he was
May 8, 2018 | 8:40 am
Divorce

‘A little less shiny when I’m with him’
May 7, 2018 | 8:50 am
Dating

He doesn’t invite me to go out with his roommates
May 4, 2018 | 8:36 am
Breakups 🖤

We broke up for the second time
May 3, 2018 | 8:30 am

Dating

‘He’s in no hurry to make me his wife’
May 2, 2018 | 8:45 am
Dating

Am I unhappy with him or just unhappy?
May 1, 2018 | 8:39 am
Dating

Am I a long-term boy toy?
April 30, 2018 | 8:53 am
Dating

Will he be giving up too much to be with me?
April 27, 2018 | 7:38 am

Breakups 🖤

Going through a long-distance breakup
April 26, 2018 | 8:57 am
Relationships

‘The last naked photo he had was from three years ago’
April 25, 2018 | 9:03 am