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Love Letters is an advice column and award-winning podcast written and hosted by Meredith Goldstein. Ask confidential questions about single life, crushes, dating fatigue, open relationships, marriage, divorce, and everything in between. Get empathetic answers — and let others with similar questions know they’re not alone. The column runs on Boston.com and in The Boston Globe.

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More Love Letters

Relationships

I’m a third wheel in my own home
February 19, 2019 | 8:33 am
Dating

He doesn’t spend time with friends
February 15, 2019 | 8:53 am
Dating

‘I have never been on a date with a woman ever’
February 14, 2019 | 9:10 am
Relationships

We can’t sleep together
February 13, 2019 | 8:44 am

Breakups 🖤

With my new boyfriend, thinking about my ex
February 12, 2019 | 9:05 am
Breakups 🖤

‘He seemed to be everything I wanted’
February 11, 2019 | 8:55 am
Breakups 🖤

He’s already seeing someone else
February 8, 2019 | 8:58 am
Breakups 🖤

Should I be helping my ex get over the breakup
February 7, 2019 | 8:57 am

Dating

With the distance, I’m just a guest in his life
February 6, 2019 | 9:02 am
Relationships

‘Living together is just more work for me to do’
February 5, 2019 | 8:53 am